Human Sexuality.. :D

Last Saturday, September 18, 2010 at the Saint Louis University High School Function, the third year students had their talk regarding on human sexuality. There were many facilitators in the talk, Mr. Isagani Bandoc, the Third Year Level Adviser was present together with two guest speakers.

The talk’s topic is very topical nowadays, especially that there are many cases of teenage preagnancies. It is funny why do young girls involve their selves with such. And when they got pregnant already that will be the time that they will think that it is totally wrong. I cannot believe that they do not have enough knowledge about such; it is not that I am saying that they are morons, but it is just that do they still have to try it before they learn the lesson?

It makes me feel sick sometimes, many teenage mothers cannot support their child. Thanks to their parents who are there to catch their daughters in those times. What if their parents are not around? What would they do? They will abort the child? That is crazy. They will have sex but they will not be ready for the consequences they will face.

This is what the talk told to us last Saturday. Being an adolescent is very hard; I know that because I am also in that stage. But being also one, I’ve never thought myself doing such. It is so not right, you get the feeling of guiltiness because your parents are working hard for you to finish your studies then one day they’ll know that you are pregnant!? That is a slap for them! But I guess we all have differences, some adolescents may not control their feelings and their intimate passion for someone that is why they are pushed to do it.

What is worst about being a teenage mothers and father is the criticisms they might get from the people that surround them. Some people would say: “isa siyang disgrasyada” or “nakadisgrasya ng babae iyan”. That is totally rude, but in my point of view I think it is definitely alright. Why? All I can say is whose fault was it in the first place? They did it because they wanted to. It is not the fault of the people around them; it is the teenage mom and dad’s fault.

But even though they’ve done a mistake doesn’t mean that they will be treated as outcasts in this society, they should be directed to the right way and not to lead to the wrong direction. That is why abortion is not the best solution they could come up with. As the famous line says, “You cannot correct a mistake by another mistake”, likewise with such case, you cannot abort the child, all they have to do is wait until the child comes out and take care of it.

So as soon as possible, guide your sons and daughters now. Don’t wait until they commit a mistake that will haunt and bother them forever. Give them sufficient knowledge about early and unwanted pregnancies in teenagers. Move now, or else, you cannot save your sons and daughters from the mistake they might make.

Thanks for viewing! Have a wonderful day! :)

“You cannot correct a mistake by another mistake.” :)